My third (19 year) marriage ended officially when I moved out in June 2004, but it was over long before that. We lived as “brother and sister” for at least two years, did counseling, etc but the emotion, the spark was long gone and gone for good. I lived alone with my cat for three months with nary a thought of reconciliation or any interest in finding another relationship so I played around on some of the adult web cites and talked (chatted online) to a few (very few) interesting people....