Articles on my life
It is always better To Be....
Published on June 14, 2005 By bigjimtx In Sex & Romance
To Be…who you really are….Or ….Not To Be …. and be who you wish to
become.


To Be….who you wish to become….Or….Not To Be…..and become the person you long to be.


To Be….. who you long to be…. Or….Not To Be….and dream of the ideal to reach.


To Be…..who is ideal in your view….Or….Not To Be…..and attempt to meet another’s ideal.


To Be…..who is another’s ideal….Or….Not To Be……and try to be everyone’s ideal.


To Be……who we really are…..Or……Not To Be……and be unhappy……that’s the rub.




Whoever you are, you cannot be truly happy unless you are true to yourself!

Happiness does not lie in pleasing others but in pleasing one’s self. So live long and seek what pleases you, its OK to be selfish for your own pleasure in any way that does not cause harm to others.



Comments
on Jun 14, 2005
Had to read it slow, because it is some rich writing.
Wholeheartedly agree, especially the very last sentence.
xoxo
sly
on Jun 14, 2005
Very good writing, and you had me right up until the final paragraph. I personally find a certain nobility is selflessness. But that's irrelevant, very good work.
on Jun 14, 2005
Shakespeare, through Polonius, answers the question in the same play:

"This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man."